Our expert says:
These sort of elaborate plans for a relationship, agreeing not to become more emotionally involved ( when that is fairly likely ) are not a good idea.
If you then "broke it off", why did it matter to you what happened in any other relationships he had ? Why should he have told you she was pregnant ?
And now you're content to enable him to cheat on his pregnant girlfriend, because the pair of you enjoy the sex together ?
It is never "impossible" to stop, and the arrangement sounds actually rather cold-hearted, and not considering the girlfriend or the child.
This is hardly any sort of "platonic" relationship[ Plato would have recognized ! Yes, indeed, you are both being very selfish. Are you really content to remain that way ?
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