Posted by: frustrated | 2009-01-05

unsatisfied with sex life

I can only reach climax when I manually stimulate myself and then it takes forever. I cannot come when my boyfriend penetrates me or if we have a quickie. It just doesnt happen. He spends hours trying to satisfy me and in the end I just tell him to come so that it can end. What is wrong with me?

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There are many things that can cause this, including relationship problems, general health conditions and hormonal changes. You do not state your age, but age also plays a role.Additionally many women cannot reach orgasm with vaginal stimulation or clitoral stimulation. Normal penile-vaginal penetration is often not sufficient. Sounds like you need a different kind of stimulation – a starting point would be a vibrator ( not just a normal dildo)- see where that sensation takes you. Your bf can consider this an ally and not a theat.

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Our users say:
Posted by: Anon | 2009-01-07

Get your clit hood pierced. Adds a whole lot of fun to sex and you should orgasm like there is no tomorrow. My GF did and boy am I enjoying it too.

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Posted by: Shony | 2009-01-06

try watching some porn!!!

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Posted by: 69 | 2009-01-05

biggest sex organ is the brain. If you get in the right frame of mind there will be success. the movement should be driven by the brain to bring results.

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