Our expert says:
You could either do this playfully, like giving him a raw egg or bread with nothing on it to illustrate your point playfully (what I mean here is the food is not ready like you are not ready for sex without affection/foreplay). Or you could stop him when he makes advances (e.g. "no, I'm not ready yet, I would like you to do this or that first"). In the same way as he is likely to turn away a raw egg, you can turn away 'unromantic sex'.
It may also be that he doesn't know exactly what you mean by 'foreplay'. You could show him either by doing to him, or directing him to do to you, what you would like (some people are embarassed about not knowing what to do...it could be that).
If this doesn't change then you need to think long and hard about whether the rest of the relationship is good enough to outweigh the fact that he appears to only think about himself...
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