Our expert says:
No. This is not not how to solve things. Having an affair with a married person is never ever justified, and causes pain all round ( even though you are finding it temporarily fulfilling at present ).
Firstly try to solve whatever problems you have in your marriage - you dont mention any attempt at marriage counselling. If that fails, move to divorce, and only think of fresh relationships once you are again personally free. This guy may well not want to continue once you're more formally available, but any new relationship after that will be more honest on both sides.
"It's so hard ?" You think it'll be easy when your husband and his wife find out about it ? Or when, having already cheated on his wife, he might cheat on you ?
Don't seek what's easy, seek what's just and effective
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