Our expert says:
Don't worry about your families thinking your mariage is perfect ( and maybe they already don't think so ) --- discuss this with them ; they can probably help. There is no reason why you should suffer and grieve alone. They may be able to help bring him to his senses ( as well as putting the silly girl properly in the picture ). The foolishness of men in their 40's having affairs is only matched by the foolishness of younger women who enter into such affairs.
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