Our expert says:
Its obvious, surely, that he is very very far from over her and indeed still engaged in that relationship. He should not be even pretending to get into a relationship with you at this stage.
If the previous relationship is over, it needs to be over - no more feeling sorry for her, no more reading her facebook page, let alone posting on it. And if this is the sort of unhappy and obsessive relatonship he has, is this really what you want or need at this stage of life ?
How can he genuinely love you when he is still so enmeshed in a continuing relationship with her ?
If you ignore it, it will surely continue.
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