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Posted by: Natasha | 2010/08/18

Trying to conceive sex

Hi

We are trying to conceive for more than a year now. What can we do not to make sex feel like we are only doing it to conceive.

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You need to remember that whilst sex is essentially about reproduction, we like to enjoy it for other reasons including sexual pleasure and feeling close/connection with our partner. It sounds like right now you are focusing on the first and forgetting the other two. The pressure that can be put on a sexual relationship can really have a big impact on the relationship thereafter. I recommend therefore that you focus on the last two aspects too - focus on the connecting part, focus on pleasure and you can still try to make sure that when it's time for his orgasm that it takes place intravaginally - but play for a while.

Claire - SASHA

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Posted by: Natasha | 2010/08/19

Thanks XXX &  Zola

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Posted by: Sexologist | 2010/08/19

You need to remember that whilst sex is essentially about reproduction, we like to enjoy it for other reasons including sexual pleasure and feeling close/connection with our partner. It sounds like right now you are focusing on the first and forgetting the other two. The pressure that can be put on a sexual relationship can really have a big impact on the relationship thereafter. I recommend therefore that you focus on the last two aspects too - focus on the connecting part, focus on pleasure and you can still try to make sure that when it's time for his orgasm that it takes place intravaginally - but play for a while.

Claire - SASHA

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Posted by: Zola | 2010/08/18

Get yourself a nice nurses uniform. When you have to do the deed, just put it on and pounce on your hubby.

Book a hotel room

Don''t just do it in the bedroom, try all the other rooms

Get chocolate body paint and ice cubes, ect

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Posted by: XXX | 2010/08/18

Simply forget about trying to conceive,just bonk when you have the urge and enjoy the moment.Conceiving will happen in its own time.

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