Our expert says:
YOur message isn't clear as to who is doing that "late night drinking "! It sounds as though you are doing the drinking, when feeling lonely, and it must surely be hard to know what is actually happening at home, or how to keep that in perspective. But it is worrying if your wife is so little home that she needs the nanny to mother the children. "Letting her hair down" is a feeble explanation.
Such long separations would make any relationship more difficult, especially when the partner at home is starting major independent efforts in business and social life.
Next time you're home, take care to promptly arrange marriage counselling sessions for the pair of you, to enhance your mutual understanding of all aspects of this complex situation, and to see what can be worked out between you
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