Our expert says:
If you really can't come to terms with this, and he hasn't cheated again for 5 years, why are you choosing to remain with him ? And why have you not been in counseling both to come to terms with this specific issue, and to deal with related issues of trust and relaionships ?
I don't agree with most of the mush that says everyone who is harmed or hurt MUST "forgive" the one who hurt them, but I think it is important to let go / release and move on, for your own sake.
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