Posted by: Really | 2009-04-16


What do you do when someone creates a situation were they make you feel as though they don' t trust you and that they make you think as though they think you are cheating on them?

When they question everything you do that is done out of breaking a routine? You assure them that this was not delibarate and that you were just stressed and did want to talk.. so you just didn' t communicate?

Is it necessary to talk to your partner about all the things that are stressing you... even if you just want to deal with it on your own and it does not hurt them even though it does not involve them?

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Sounds like they might be trying to be manipulative, maybe out of a guilty conscience, because perhaps they had cheated or had thought of doing so ? It is reasonable to decide you'd like to try to sort out some things that are stressing you, on your own --- but if the stress is apparent to them, at least communicate clearly that you are aware of this, want to try to deal with it on your own, and you will ask for their help when you feel you need it, thanking them for their concern

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