Our expert says:
Sorry to hear that your counsellor has apparently not managed to enable you to set yourself free from these bonds of bitterness you have constructed, which seem to be causing more damage and misery than the original cheating.
Find a more experienced therapist, preferably one using CBT, and get to grips with the extent to which you have been building your own problems since the unfortunate earlier episode
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