Our expert says:
There is no simple answer anyone can give you online --- you need to see a marriage counsellor together to work this out. Maybe she'dd find this suggestion more acceptable if you emphasiuze that you are bothered by her suggestions that you are not doing things right, and want to be able to do so, and that seeing a counsellor together would be the best way for you to learn how to do things right.
And as others comment, there could be an element of PBD, Post-Natal Depression, here, a quite common problem with women who have recently given birth, and one which generally responds well to treatment
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