Our expert says:
Whilst you may get amazing stimulation from this vibrator, at the end of the day it is your relationship and sexual relationship with your husband which is really important. It seems that you are becoming fixed on the quality of the orgasm rather than the whole sexual experience and intimacy shared with your husband. My advice would be to perhaps put the vibrator away for a while which may sound a bit extreme but you need to refocus on the pleasurable sensations and arousal that you achieev with your husband and not just with penis in vagina. It may help to practice Kegel's exercises, tightening and then relaxing the muscles which are found in the pelvis and surround the vagina. This may help you to focus on the sensations in this area. It may also help to really focus on the pleasuarable sensations of touch and arousal that you share.
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