Our expert says:
It would be selfish top respond " When you feel it's over and its no longer worth anything useful for you", but that comes fairly close to it.
( On a quick first reading, I thought you said you had a long distance friendship with a sex fiend, which didn't sound like a good idea at all !)
As you describe it, though, it does sound like a very one-way relationship, rather than a genuine mutually fulfilling friendship.
Maybe he fopund it hard to decide how to respond to your voicing of your concerns, but he definitely owed you a good response. It sounds like he wants this as an occasional fun thing when he feels like it, and as non-existent when he doesn't. Maybe that doesnt suit you. Maybe next time you get together, inctead of sex, it'd be more useful to have a long, calm, discussion of what this relationship is expected to be, by each of you
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