Our expert says:
I suppose one of the things this story illustrates is the value of a reasonably long engagement - the chance to discover incompatibilities not noticeable when in a hurry.
The fuss over the jersey was obviously foolish - but more worrying would be the deeply unwise assumption that a loving couple should do EVERYTHING together. Impractical and undesirable. Maybe they should Decide on everyting that is Important, together. That's different.
Feeling jealous of the cat is both pathetic and highly sinister.
You are not describing a wholesome or promising relatonship. Nothing you're talking about seems to be your fault, and his skill in convincing you that everything IS your fault, is also really bad news.
He is indeed controlling and over-possessive, and things will NOT get better after marriage, only more unpleasant and more expensive.
And o course, if he were right about even a few of his criticisms of you - why on earth would he still want to marry you ?
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