Our expert says:
Shattered ? THat may be an apt expression of how it feels. "Never to heal" ? That is an unfair ( to yourself ) conclusion, and you could push it into becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy, which would be unfortunate.
What is awful is that your husband should blame you for his own selfish and cruel behaviour. He's sane, but being mean and cynical and abusive. And how stupid this girl is. And is she guaranteed she will never gain weight, and never give him this or some other excuse for him to cheat her, too ?
You are not fat, and probably don't need to lose weight at all. As Anon says, you can gain or lose weight and still be a fine person --- he is stuck with being a mean and selfish one, and uinlikely to change that. Se a counsellor if necessary, but plan to protect yourself and your children ( funded by the maintenance a court would order him to pay ) so the three of you can thrive, and he can reap the penalties for the mean decisions he has chosen to make
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