Our expert says:
Generally ( and few generalizations are accurate in most cases ) men are uneasy when women get very emotional - they don't know how to handle it, and don't like meeting situations they don't know how to handle.
Its possible he found this more difficult than most, or you could be more emotionally demanding than most, what's siometimes called High Maintenance. In a close relationship you are indeed important to each other, but can't reasonably expect to be the most important thing on his mind at all times.
And, for instance, an insistence that he must take you away somewhere nice ( he wouldn't see much point in taking you somewhere nasty ) when he cant afford to do so, is unrealistic and would make him feel bad.
Maybe it's just that you're descibin what troubles you, but as you describe the relationship, it seems to be all about you, and how he makes you feel. How important did he feel he was, to you ? Not just as a provider of ways to make you feel good, but in the sense of you actually bothering much about how he felt and what he wanted ?
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