Our expert says:
Is this "madly in love" "common knowledge" to her, as well as to everyone else ? Has she commented about how she felt about you ? Sounds like she's been cheating on you ( although, if she doesn't consider herself to be in a real relationship with you, she's no cheating ) but that the other guy is cheating on her. Ho-hum.
His "I am a man and have needs that MUST be taken care of " is balderdash. Some childish and selfish men seem to assume there is a little-known section of the SA Constitution which says that any and every time he feels randy, he MUST be enabled to have sex with anything that moves, as often as he wishes. Everyone has needs, but they deal wih them appropriately and responsibly. T
his excuse for being promiscuous is as rotten as saying " I am a man with needs for a car - so I'll hijack one" "I have needs for a cell-phone - so I'll take hers".
And if he threatens to beat you up for revealing his cheating, then (a) he's a thug, and (b) he knows there's something wrong with what he's doing, or he wouldn't care what you said.
She doesn't sound like a good friend of yours, or you would feel free to talk to her about anything, including this.
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