Our expert says:
Being needy, including needing suh frequent re-assurance, is not love. When a couple really love each other, they know it, and don't have to be so fequently told that it is so.
I do not prescribe for relationships in the way tyou ask --- 2 consnting adults can leap into be together as soon as they please. it is my observation, however, that when this happens very early in the relationship, it often means that the actual human relationship hasn't yet fully formed, and the sex may over-shadow that. I respect myself very well, and for excellent reasons. Again, in years of experience, I observe that people who ae so needy in a relationship with someone else so needy, seem to feel it needs phone-calls and sex to cement the relaionship, without recognizing that they are good enough to be a sufficient reason for the relationship[ to thrive in its own right.
And yes, my answers are intended to be provoking --- that way they can be useful. Answers that only tell you what you already know, and which try too hard to be likeable, may be enjoyed, but unhelpful.
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