Our expert says:
You're right - there are many reasons, including stress, whichm may impact on the quality of one person's ability to engage fully and enthusiastically in sex. But if it has never been any better than this, he may have hangups about sex, or maybe he's simply unskilled and unimginative in this aspect of life. Similarly, many different facotrs may reduce one's libido, but his never seems to have been particularly high.
Man ( indead women too ) with any kind of sexual problem tend to insist that there's nothing wrong with them and are reluctant to see a doc or shrink. From your description it sounds as though this is really not about him not being attracted to YOU, but something much more broad.
Marriage counselling would be a good way to start, to see this isue in contect and help him to see it as a real but remediable problem
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