Our expert says:
Maybe he needs legal advice to have someone take over his life as a sort of curator to control his spending ( which is useless unless he works hard to get income worth controlling ) He is of course still avoiding any form of personal responsibility for what he does. HE must control hi spending. Sincerity that is so entirely theoretical and not matches by sincere actions, is esentially worthless.
As Liza suggests, read up on Tough Love, which may be what he needs.
Stop accepting his feeble excuses ; maybe also read up on the unfortunate role of the "enabler" who inadvertently helps someone remain helpless, rather than pressing them to become self-sufficient.
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