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Posted by: Grant | 2012/01/18

Threesome

My wife wanted to try a threesome with another woman.We did and all parties had fun.Now she want to try a threesome but with another man.
Is that normal???Where will it lead to??

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It may lead to the same place a threesome with women can lead to ... trouble! This type of sexual behaviour is often with mutual consent and full fill one or both partners' fantasy, but it can also lead to relational stress or breakdown, resentment, jealousy and later sexual dysfunction. Perhaps it is time you sit down and discuss what you want sexually from one another and then make a decision of how far you would like to full fill the fantasy. Keep in mind, that it may be great fun, but it can also be a long term stressor - everything has a price to pay in the end. Deidre - SASHA

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Posted by: DOG FATHER | 2012/03/09

WELL DONE !

HOWEVER DUE TO UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES, THE NEXT STEP WILL SEE THE MALES MEBER ENTERING YOUR STAR SHIP CRUISER AT LIGHT SPEED!

YOURS IN THE PINK, HIS IN YOUR STINK

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Posted by: Bron | 2012/01/20

Well look at what happened to lots the celebrities who participate in this lifestyle - wasnt it all over the media that Demi and her husband, Will and his wife participated in open marriages etc.? I also know of many couples in SA who do this kind of thing - their marriages fall apart sooner or later.

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Posted by: Dol | 2012/01/19

Its normal. Everybody has fantacies. If both of you are ok with living out your fantacies - go for it. BUT do it together and never appart. Do you have any fantacies ? Its only fair if you live out yours as well.

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Posted by: Ms. Bee Sting | 2012/01/18

Hear-hear, Roommate!

There is a saying in afrikaans that goes something like this: " as jy met vuur speel, verbrand jy jou vingers" .

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Posted by: Roommate | 2012/01/18

So? What is the difference ?
You were ok with another woman.... why not another man?
Where will it lead to? To the end of your marraige for sure.

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Posted by: mark | 2012/01/18

does this idea turn u on,,

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Posted by: XXX | 2012/01/18

You were foolish to think that it was not a possibility that it could lead to this-3sum''s are dangerous for relationships.
Rather try and spice up your sex life with your wife,although that might now be difficult as wants her turn with another man.

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Posted by: sexologist | 2012/01/18

It may lead to the same place a threesome with women can lead to ... trouble! This type of sexual behaviour is often with mutual consent and full fill one or both partners' fantasy, but it can also lead to relational stress or breakdown, resentment, jealousy and later sexual dysfunction. Perhaps it is time you sit down and discuss what you want sexually from one another and then make a decision of how far you would like to full fill the fantasy. Keep in mind, that it may be great fun, but it can also be a long term stressor - everything has a price to pay in the end. Deidre - SASHA

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