Our expert says:
It sounds like you are struggling to ejaculate during sex; this is sometimes referred to as delayed/retarded ejaculation or male anorgasmia. One of the important factors to establish is whether you can come through masturbation and if so, what the difference is between your/her hand, and having vaginal sex. Check out the following website - it gives a lot more information than I can offer here... http://www.male-orgasmic-disorder.com/treatment-male-anorgasmia-2.html
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