Our expert says:
It is always wise to SAY, in actual words, if you are not interested, rather than expecting the other guy to guess it. Why are you being coy towards him ? When he asked about your weekend, you could easily have mentioned something about seeing or speaking to your fiancee. Why does he have to ask you specifically ? He can reasonably assume you are unattached because you continue to behave as though unattached and because you don't tell him otherwise.
I think you are enjoying the attention. There was no audacity in him calling you ; its much more inconsiderate for you to keep leading him on. What is this, a punishment by wasting airtime, for daring to speak pleasantly to you ?
I really cannot understand, at all, why you feel he has an obligation to ask you specifically, while you have a right to keep it secret. It is you who are being unreasonable towards him. Tell him the truth at the next opportunity, and do so pleasantly, in the way I suggested
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