Our expert says:
Lets try to understand what you're saying here. Your relationship, from your point of view, seems based on sex - and you seem to resent even the idea that you should ask him when you feel like it, rather than him just being available like a tap you turn on when you're thirsty ? So you start thinking abou sex with his friend ( which would hurt him terribly ) ?
If you haven't had sex for 3 months and your bf seems uninterested ( was he previously much more interested - is this a change in him ? Or was he always like this ? )
There are numerous reasons why a man ( or woman ) 's interest in sex may fade for a time, and they can all be helped with the right sort of expert advice. You need to sit down calmly and discuss this issue with him. If the pair of you want to sort this out, he can see a shrink for assessment and advice, maybe the pair of you could see a marriage counsellor together.
Cheating never solves any problems, and will kill the relationship in the most unpleasant and painful way
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