Home > Experts > Question Search health advice Find an answer Question Posted by: DH | 2012/05/22 Q.Things unsaid I wonder how much stuff is actually unsaid in marriage and relationships. There are so many things that one just leaves and lets go though they say in the back of your head. You might think " F_U, why did you do this or that" but you let it slide beacuse its not worth the hassle. Sort of like picking your battles, you can''t argue about everything that comes to mind or all things that annoy you so you simply let it slide and pile it up in your mind. I''m sure that everybody does it to some degree, I just wonder to what degree. 18 Pin It user comments Posted by: scroog fan | 2012/05/24 I like your mentality scrooge. relationshiops arent the same so doesnt really what skeletons you have, they are yooooos keep them and put you best foot fw. Reply to scroog fan Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/22 FINE! Reply to Brendan Posted by: A | 2012/05/22 This Scrooge lady must be pmsing.. Y ru so grumpy Reply to A Posted by: Cindy | 2012/05/22 And in some cases " never" ....you never buy me flowers anymore. Sometimes I feel sorry for men! Wait, did I say that out loud? Reply to Cindy Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/22 So what cars do you like Scrooge? Reply to Brendan Posted by: DH | 2012/05/22 @Cindy - Whenever a sentence contains the words " Always" or " most" then you can be sure its nonsense. Reply to DH Posted by: Cindy | 2012/05/22 Haha the worst for me is when my sis says to me ''you ALWAYS do this that and the other'' And I go ''Always? Like when always?'' And she then hits me with ''well I can''t give you a date but you''ve done it twice before, I know'' LOL! Reply to Cindy Posted by: Scrooge | 2012/05/22 Brendan is right actually... this topic has been brought up too many times.Thats why i am feeling so gatvol with man talk.Men on here are worst than the woman, they nag on and on about relationships... BORING.Be a real man, and make it work on your own private time.you bunch of old men you... Reply to Scrooge Posted by: Cindy | 2012/05/22 See I''m not much of a talker - I let a whole lotta things slide but hubby knows that when I do speak up it''s something that''s important to me and I expect him to pay attention. Reply to Cindy Posted by: DH | 2012/05/22 @Scrooge - If you don''t like the topic then just shut up or start your own topic, we''re not here for your entertainment - moron@Cindy - I know exactly what you mean. There is nothing like getting into an argument with the wife over some or other topic and then getting 6 months worth of pile shoveled in your face. The problem is that by that time most men have long forgotten all those piled issues and also can''t understand why those issues ended up on the pile in the first place. The best, I suppose is to handle things as they occor, but we al know that that isn''t possible either. Reply to DH Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/22 Scrooge you are damn right. Hope we didn''t get off on a wrong footing just now. And you know what, I have been saying just three simple things. If they understood them, there would be no need to flog this topic to a complete pulp.So me, I do like woman, pretty woman, music and of course cars. I''ve got my eye on an Audi S5 but my drumkit wont fit in it. Not quite a speed freak, more of a C180K kinda guy but that S5 has something about it! Reply to Brendan Posted by: DH | 2012/05/22 The thing is, I don''t think that one can always be perfectly truthful in expressing your thoughts just like with kids, you weigh your words carefully (well, most of the time) - The thing is, there are issues that are really important but we sometimes just keep quiet just to keep the peace. Maybe this is why it is good to have a confidant, somebody that is able to listen and bounce ideas around with who is not intimately involved in your life. Reply to DH Posted by: Cindy | 2012/05/22 That''s true DH. We all have our ''little piles''. The problem starts when the ''little'' piles grow bigger and we eventually hit the verbal diarheea (sp) stage...we blurt it all out and the person we''re speaking to is like ''WFT?!'' Well, that''s how it is with me anyway. Reply to Cindy Posted by: Survey | 2012/05/22 Scrooge then post something to Flokit and Mugabe and ask them for comments. They dont post by the looks of it they just comment. So start posting some topics that they will comment on. Seems as if they also like the other topics -considering they are responding under these posts. Reply to Survey Posted by: Scrooge | 2012/05/22 Well your''e the dumbass for posting this boring sh!t. If you are having marriage problems then why the heck would you post it on ManTalk.This is a boring subject.Why dont you guys rather post manly things...Stop all this posting of marriage problems, we have our own marriages to deal with.Thats why i would rather read a post from flokit or mugabe... Reply to Scrooge Posted by: Survey | 2012/05/22 True DH we all have our own little inner doubts and thoughts that we struggle with.@ Scrooge, please buckle up and fly away on your broom. Reply to Survey Posted by: DH | 2012/05/22 F_CK OFF DumbA$$ Reply to DH Posted by: Scrooge | 2012/05/22 Please go to the marriage support forum for that question.... Reply to Scrooge Want to comment? Your name (optional) Your comment To prevent spam please solve this simple math problem: × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. 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