Our expert says:
Not unless he really wants to learn to stop this, and even then it would be difficult. Frankly, while it is good to help him survive and to seek work, I do't think it is useful to over-finance him so he can preend to be employed and sucessful when he is not --- you remove all his motivation to actually seek work and support himself.
Allowing him to spend your money freelly just so he can show off to others, is an awful idea.
He doesn't need alcohol and cigarettes at your expense --- again, if he gets everything free, why should he bother to get a job ? You are absolutely right too recognize --- he is a greedy thief, having everything provided for him by two hard-working women, and stealing for luxuries on top of that.
Such a man will not be cured, and continuing to sponsor him only encourages him to stay that way. There's no point in remaining with him and hoping for change that won't come
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