Our expert says:
She sounds an irresponsibkle young woman. NO job is "not a job for a young adult"-- what sort of job was she expecting ? And as pregnancy is avoidable, she should have been more careful, especially knowing that she could not support a child. I don't see a baby shower as appropriatwe, but this is a matter of etiquette rather than psychiatry ! There is certainly nothing wrong at all in how you feel, or min your choosing to express those feelings.
Its not about what a pregnany woman deserves, but what a carelessly pregnant woman deserves, and what the child deserves ( a mother who can properly afford to care for it ). Its excellent to invite friends to give gifts TO and FOR THE BABY, rather than to the mother.
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