Our expert says:
The central issue in a relationship is whether it is satisfying to both parties, and perhaps whether it is maximally so, or whether there are unnecessary missed opportunities for growth. Maybe you have settled for a manner of relating that is comfortable and safe, rather than trying to find even more to enjoy. It sounds from your message as though the sexual and emotional side of relating has faded since the awful year of 2007 ? You may be content with what you have, but isn't there more which you used to have together - and is there any really good reason why you should not resume those areas of growth ?
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