Our expert says:
Again, my dear, not only are you busy trying to solve everyone else's problems ( thereby rendering them more irresponsible and incapable ) but you even get guilty on their behalf. You did not make them whatwever they are, and it is NOT your responsibility. You didn't bring up one child to be gay or the other to be addicted. If someone handed you a pair of babies, would you REALLY know how to turn one into an addict and ensure that they other became gay ? OF course not.
And don't exaggerate the issue of the one boy being gay --- it can include exposure to some unpleasant prejudices from other people, but its simply one way of being, which may not be your way. At the ages you now reveal, bot boys badly and urgently need to take responsibility for their own lives, and stop being any sort of burden to you.
YOU have not failed. They may have, so far, but don't need to do so.
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