Our expert says:
I hear that he is radically different from what you expected when you married him --- and, presumably, different in an unpleasant way. Counselling can often help couples sort out such disappointments and concerns, but of course if he refuses to take part in counselling, he is preventing that potential solution from arising. Personal counselling might help you to explore the situation and work out what will be the best solution for you. And do no acept his attempts to shift the blame for HIS chosen conduct, to you.
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