Our expert says:
If he isn't mature enough to handle your PAST history, then he's not ready for a serious relationship, with you or with anyone else. If he rejects someone he meets on the basis of their not being a virgin, then he rules out many possible relationships.
You might have chosen differently, have chosen to "save yourself" - but why would it have been for someone like him ?
None of us can ever change the past - what we CAN, fruitfully change, is our attitude to the past and the conclusions we choose to draw from it. And CBT ( Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy ) is an effective way to do that, if we wish to do so. The change needs to come within him ; it sounds as though you have already matured and changed beneficially.
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