advertisement
Question
Posted by: Loser | 2010/10/13

Suicidal/Being used/Feeling no worth-work related

Please please assist me? I am been working as a travel consultant for the last 6yrs. 2 months ago, the Director asked me to help her with an international order, that has no relation to my work and I have no background of doing " stock orders"  that has nothing to do with travel. Now she is being penalised by Customs for R360.000.00 because I send an invoice 2 days late. I''m devasted and feel like I cannot be held responsible, she does not expect me to pay up, but this is absurd. I feel useless and like quitting, but work is so scares.

Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question
Our expert says:
Expert ImageLabour lawyer

RE: SUICIDAL / BEING USED / FEELING NO WORTH - WORK RELATED

As long as your employer is not taking any disciplinary action against you, I do not believe that you should tender your resignation.

The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.

3
Our users say:
Posted by: Labour Lawyer | 2010/10/19

RE: SUICIDAL / BEING USED / FEELING NO WORTH - WORK RELATED

As long as your employer is not taking any disciplinary action against you, I do not believe that you should tender your resignation.

Reply to Labour Lawyer
Posted by: NOT A LOSER | 2010/10/15

Dazee, you are the sweetest thing, thank you very much for the positive feedback. You are right, everything is ok again and she always makes me feel better, she is a very nice woman. (The Director) You are right, I don''t like it when I mess up once in a while, it makes me complete depressed. I must just breathe and get over it. Have a lovely weekend, and thank you so much

Reply to NOT A LOSER
Posted by: Dazee | 2010/10/14

You are obviously a perfectionist in your work. I know, I am the same.
I cannot HANDLE making a mistake and I want to die if I get any negative critisism.
Everyone makes a mistake and then SOME feel useless afterwards and SOME feel nothing afterwards.
You will feel like that for a while, but hey, we are all human.
All will be cool. Stick it out and carry on doing your best.
Good Luck

Reply to Dazee

Have your say

Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly.
Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly.
advertisement