Our expert says:
I can't help wondering, if the relationship jhas been rocky from the start, why you have stayed together for so long, and chosen to have a child together.
Its complicated when one feels you love someone, but start comparing that love with a theoretical sort of love you feel you OUGHT to feel. You seem to be worrying about how you SHOULD feel, mroe than how you DO feel.
As you say, he hasn't changed since you started dating, so what has changed may have been your expectations and how you evaluate the relationship. Even if he needs to start by believing it is to sort out the problems in you, that can start a process that opens his eyes to the broader issues, and gives a chance of solving them.
Why not see a marriage / couples counsellor together, to help you both understand more of what is and isn't going on, and to decide how to deal wih this.
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