Our expert says:
What one imagiesn it will be like to have a child, and the actual reality of having one, let alone two, are often shockingly different.
Couldn't your husband, surely, do more to help with the kids, and share the load ?
It also sounds as though the pair of you have sevrre disciplinary problems with the kids, as most kids, especially as old as 5, do NOT physically harrass their mother in the way you describe. Maybe a couple of sessions with a suitable counsellor, jointly, could set up a better system of rules and disciplinary consequences for when they behave so badly. And they could also share to some extent in the household chores.
You're not a bad parent at all ; maybe you ar e both relatively unskilled parents as regards instilling better behaviour in the kids. If they behaved better, your load would be diminished, for a start
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