Our expert says:
Your “solution” seems to be one sided and is most likely not to happen. Daily work stress and demand are often one of the culprits for relationship problems and then specific sexual problems due to the lack of time for the relationship. There is a saying “ use it or lose it” and it is often very true for people that are highly stressed and feel over stretched when it comes to sexual relationships. The less we have time to have sex, the less the desire to have it and even the less the desire for closeness in the relationship. You need to stop for a second and reflect on why you are in this relationship and what are you expecting from this relationship. By the sound of your mail, your relationship is very low on the priority list and most probably at risk. I strongly recommend that you really assess where you could make time for your relationship in your busy schedule. You cannot expect the relationship to blossom without any water. A balance with in your life and then also in your relationship is necessary. It is strongly recommended that you seek the professional guidance from a psychologist that deals with sexual difficulties, work stress and relationships. You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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