Our expert says:
Its disgraceful, but seem often to be so, that any court case about something as urgent as custody, should take years, profitting only the lawyers ( lawyers win every case ) and any especially embittered and nasty participant. Of course if it takes long enough, the result becomes irrelevant.
I really think the law and the courts should recognize that it is criminal child abuse for any parent to use their child as a weapon against their ex-partner. A good lawyer should know if there is anything more you can do legally.
Otherwise, all you can do is to be supportive and loving to each other, and to the child, and maybe a counsellor could help him to deal better with the problems his mother apparently insists on creating
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