( someone is bound to complain - typing ALL IN CAPITALS counts as shouting, and is much harder to read ).
Your messgae is terse. Presumably the son is the product of your husbands previous marriage, and not your son ? Much depends on his age. If he's young and lives with you, there are issues of family rules and expectations, discipline, parenting, and so on, and a consultation with a child shrink could help. If he's an adult, he really shouldnt be an active part of your lives or enabled to cause much trouble between you.
Can you persuade your husband to join you in marriage counselling, to see what can be fixed here ?
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