Our expert says:
SOME step parents abuse children, but the great majority don't. Just as some biological parents abuse children, but most don't. Generalizations are dangerous and prejudicial. Sone grandparents abuse childen. Abuse is awful, but we should never assume that some tupes of people do, and others dont.
I agree with you that if you really believe someone would abuse your child, the response should be to leave the abuser, not to get rid of the child.
And I absolutely HATE this highly destructive modern cliche of insisting that nobody must "judge" anyone else, whatever they do. Of course people should be and are judged. Insisting you must not be judged proves you know there is something wrong with your behaviour or intentions and that you don't want to be reminded of it or persuaded to think again and maybe change your mind. It is SHE who is missing something, something very important.
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