Hi. I am 29 year old working mother of 3, my partner and I have been together for 10 years and he is the father of all 3 of my kids (he doesnt want to get married...but that is a different kettle of fish all together) before we became parents, I admit I used to spoilt him, he never had to help clean the house or anything, all that I just had to do was wipe his bum then I would really be doing everything in the house and yard. Now however with 3 children it is still the same, he gets home from work and sits in front of the tv and doesnt do jack. should i not do something then i get yelled at and he then tells me i am uselss and he is getting sick and tired of me - besided the fact that I wake uo 3 hours earlier then him in the mornings and go to bed at about 2am at night, just so that I can do whatever needs to be done in the house. he then gets all moody when he cannot get a leg over because I am just to tired. my youngest child (3) still wakes up at night so i have to attend to her to. I dont have a domestic worker so everything gets done by myself. he has now also told me that i dont really have any say over the house as he pays the bond and i am in actual fact just a tenant there. he has also now cut my food budget my nearly half of what it is and if there isnt something in the house that he wants to eat i get called all sorts or names. he loves to tell me i am lying about what ever situation i am confronted about. I love him dearly and do not want our relationship to end but i do need help from him and maybe some emotional support to as i tend to get very depressed and at times dont even want to spend 10 seconds with my children whom i love to bits and i know it is unfair towards them for my moods.