So he's painfully old-fashioned, selfish and has no idea of how to treat a woman properly. What you are describing is emotionally and economically abusive. Call a group like POWA which exists to help advise abused women, to look at your options.
Its hard to see from your description of the situation how you can love this guy. LOok after yourself and the children.
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