Our expert says:
She cheated, and seriously risked your health and life by having unprotected sex with others, with, effectively, strangers. Depression and anxiwety is really no excuse for that.
But work on this with your marriage counsellor. It is essential that she take personal responsibility for her choices and deeds, if she is to have any hope of finding how to behave more responsibly.
You are not being weak for not immediately throwing her out ( I'm guessing these confessions came out in the course of the marriage counselling ? ) but you do need to work through all these issues with the help of the counsellor, before making a considered decision about what is best for you and the children, and secondarily what is best for her
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