Our expert says:
I don't know what it is about cats that lends them to such humour. I read that they have some 200 different vocal sounds in their repertoire, while dogs have around 6.
Surprisingly to many people, there is no such thing as a split personality. That term arose from a misunderstanding of Schizophrenia. But of course most of us behave differently, sometimes radically differently, in different circumstances --- you in church are differen from you in a supermarket. And depending on the setting and the people around you, there may be considerable differences i how Ne behaves.
She, like all of us, but probably more mysteriously because she cannot describe her thinking and responses to you, reacts to what she thinks is going on ( not to what is actually going on ) and to whatever seems to her to be rewarding, avoiding whatver seems unrewarding.
What miht be happening when you get home ? DO you accidentally interrupt her when she's doing something she wants to continue ? Is she initially angry with you for having been away all day ? Maybe she's showing attachment to the caegiver because (a) she's a nice woman, and (b) she's around more than you are, these days ?
Pay her more rewarding attention and praise her when she's doing what you want, and ignore her as much a possible when she's doing what you don't want, rather than revealing your distress. Instead of insisting that she come and sit with you, give her the impression that you'll be doing something far more interesting on your own, and just MABE you might let her join you.
Have some business meetings in Durban Sunday through Thursday, so maybe it'll be marginally warmer.
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