Our expert says:
Some people find it much easier than others, to adjust to and learn to love, handicapped or disabled people.The children absolutely must come first in the decisions you make. That he feels, apparently strongly, that they should be kept in an institution and denied a more normal everyday life, is ominous and unfortunate. You don't mention the children's ages, either chronologically or mentally, or how they feel about him or their changed circumstances. Are they happy in the hostel ? How much time are they now able to spend with you ? Don't sacrficie them for a man, however nice he otherwise seems.
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