Our expert says:
It is evident that your partner and you have a very complex relationship with much history impacting on it. It is not possible to tease it all out on a forum like this. Working with a couple's therapist would be a more appropriate space where the two of you could address the various issues you have raised.
One simple answer to one of your questions is that yes a man can experience a case of premature ejaculation if there has been a lengthy time between sexual encounters or if he is anxious during a sexual encounter.
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