Our expert says:
I"m not aware of having failed to respond to ANy posting in the last 10myears or more. But this week I had yet another vvery long power cut, because the Tshwane municipality is utterly incapable of keeping the lights on in a capital city.
Yes, pretending to hit someone, while not quite physical abuse, not only can lead to accidental blows, but is disrespectful at the least.
These are all signs suggesting that this is not likely to become a lasting and happy relationship for you, and you should reconsider it. On the other hand, considering some of the horrifically abusive and vicious things some couples do to each other, at least this is currently at the level of disrespect. Marriage really doesn't sound like a great idea, does it ?
If you both actually do want to to ahead with this, at least make sure you work with a couples counsellor to see what can be sorted out.
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