Our expert says:
Nothing messes up erections ( or climaxes ) like anxiety about getting one.
If your boyfriend is troubled by feeling unattractive, unsuccessful, and so on, maybe he should be encouraged to seek individual counselling to clear up these issues ; it can't be purely your job to try to boost his morale ; this could be like pumping air into a tyre that has a hole in it - an energetic task, but rarely successful.
Its not clear how his pressure on you to stay home affects your financial problems - if it means no parties / clubs, drunks, it'd save money even if boring ; it it prevents you from going to work, it'd be ridiculous.
Otherwise, couples counselling, surely ?
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