Our expert says:
Firstly, it's hard to know without far more details than can be exchanged here. The issues that seem to important to you right now could possibly be sorted out and resolved in couples counselling. It doesn't sound, from your message, as though you have actually worked on resolving these issues, rather than growing disappointed and biter about it
And it depends on whether you live together, etc.
If you are for whatever reason determined to end this, the coffee shop approach seems generally favoured ( in the sense of choosing a public setting where he might not want to cause a major scene ). Indeed, whenever I visit a coffee shop I wonder how many others there are in the throes of breakin up.
Be gentle and caring in how you speak, as you make i clear he may have been disappointing, but he hasn't been bad.
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