Our expert says:
Many medical conditions can affect our ability to want or perform sex in the usual way, but if one is adaptable, one can develop a new style of sexual life despite unahcngeable illnesses. But it's actually selfish for him not to bother to seek medical assistance for an illness which could surely be improved.
Its sad that you seem to have made so many different attempts, in so many ways, to improve the situation, but it sounds as though he is just not bothering to pull his weight. He sounds like a good husband in most other ways, but determinedly ignoring his duties towards you.
Youi are a conscientious person, and he, apparently, is not.
venting is fine, but its not clear what your question is, here. Are you maybe wondering whether others will consider it understandable and even justifiable for you to have and pursue an affair ?
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