Our expert says:
No, it doesn't sound stupid at all. It's a serious issue and I'm so sorry its causing strife in your home.
Unfortunately I don't think the current law is going to help in this case. And it's little comfort for me to say you are absolutely right. Passive smoking has been proved undeniably as a health risk - and especially so for children; I could send you a long, growing list of studies to this effect (and I'd be happy to if you think it'd help!). It really is completely unacceptable and selfish in the 21st century, with all the knowledge of what smoking does, to smoke around a child.
I think it's going to become - legally - increasingly difficult to smoke around kids. For example, a UK council this month banned smokers from becoming foster parents (a controversial decision, but it shows the trend that many are taking this very seriously).
Would it not be possible to reach a compromise where she only smokes in a certain room/certain rooms of the house, preferably with the door closed and the windows open?
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