Our expert says:
I wish women were not conditioned to expect so very, very much of "the wedding" and so little of the mariage. 9 months isn't long to get to know someone, so one hopes she's not being too hasty in rushing into marriage. Or maybe she too is eager to get "the wedding".
I wonder what exactly it is you want about getting married ( I"m not knocking it, just wondering what aspect you are hoping for, as without clarity of aim, you may not find it ).
If you really want someone who will be happy to be married to you, it really sounds as though you've picked the wrong guy for that. Why on earth would you stay with someone who doesn't want to marry you, doesn't want you to become part of his family, or he part of yours ?
Better no marriage at all till you have found someone who wants marriage of the sort you do, and for similar reasons, so it can be a fulfilling and happy marriage, rather than any marriage just to be married.
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